Do you have a questions about enhancing your sex life? So did these did these people. Check out what our experts had to say.
What is the difference between water-based and silicone-based lubricant?
Water- based lubricants are water-soluble and are the most widely used personal lubricants. These lubricants are compatible with a variety of sex toys and condoms. They do dissolve in water, so they are not ideal for sex acts in water.
Silicone-based lubricants are usually formulated with fewer than four ingredients and do not contain any water. Silicone-based lubricants are not absorbed by skin or mucus membranes, therefore will last longer than water-based lubricants. We recommend using this type of lubricant for water play and backdoor action.
We don’t recommend using a silicone-based lubricant with your silicone toys because the formula may dissolve the surface of the toy, making it a potential breeding ground for bacteria. While some premium toys and lubricants are compatible, we recommend playing it safe and sticking with water-based lubricant for use with toys.
If a woman doesn’t know if she’s had an orgasm, then odds are she hasn’t. For starters, she needs to get out of her brain in case she’s all up in it wondering if she’s had an orgasm. That could be a big buzz kill for orgasm.
A vibrator can help with reaching orgasm and finding a reliable and powerful enough vibrator is a good start. We recommend starting with a small, vibrator that’s not too intimidating and working on finding your favorite erogenous zones.
Sometimes women get it in their head that they need to have a vaginal orgasm and don’t give proper attention to their clitoris. Or that it shouldn’t take very long to have an orgasm, when it takes women a lot longer than men to climax. It’s okay to take your time and figure out your body so you can free your mind and tap into clitoral stimulation.
If you’ve never had anal sex before and want to try it, how can I get prepared for it so it won’t hurt so much?
Anal sex should never hurt, and if it does then you definitely want to stop what you’re doing. That being said, prepping for your first time is a great way to have the best experience possible. We suggest using a silicone-based lube and perhaps an anal plug to get you used to the sensation. You can use a lube shooter to get the lube inside, if you need assistance applying. Be sure to just relax and enjoy the sensations!
When looking for a lube, you want to look for one that lasts long enough. a silicone lube would be best or water-based lube designed for this type of play .You should stay away from any kind of numbing kind of lubricants.
As for toys to get you in the mood for anal sex, one of our favorite plugs is the ripple, because it starts small and gets larger…or the pro-touch (it vibrates). They’re all silicone so they’re non porous and bacteria doesn’t get in. Also practice working on how it feels when something is going up your butt. Practice breathing and relaxing to see where that gets you.
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