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2015 Holiday Gift Guide (Part 2)

Here’s part 2 of our 2015 Holiday Gift Guide! Find the first part here: 2015 Holiday Gift Guide (Part 1)


Longer Lovemaking

Trying to enhance you or your partner’s performance during sex? Aphrodisiacs can greatly increase a woman’s libido, making her more excited to be intimate. Also, there are clitoral stimulating serums that can warm, cool, or tingle. System JO’s Volt really brings electricity into the bedroom! This serum makes everything buzz with excitement.




Touch Therapy

Go romantic this year with the gift of touch. Massage is a great way to connect with your partner on a more intimate level. Go flirty, sassy, or naughty with your partner. DONA’s Tease Me Massage Oil has an aphrodisiac and pheromone infused formula that both moisturizes and rejuvenates your lover’s skin. Transform your lover into a sensual dessert with DONA’s Kissable Massage Oil. Taste your lover in chocolate, vanilla, or strawberry!

DONA Tease Massage Oil

DONA Tease Massage Oil

DONA Kissable Massage Oil

DONA Kissable Massage Oil


Going Solo

Are you in a long distance relationship, or does your partner have a lot of free alone time? Consider getting them a toy for solo play. These toys can also be used to play together through mutual masturbation. The Fleshlight Stamina Training Pack is not only for his pleasure, but also increases performance for when partners are together. This kit comes with the patented SuperSkin Fleshlight Sleeve with a gold case, Fleshlube Water, Fleshlight Renewing Powder, Fleshwash and a free e-guide for increasing stamina!

Fleshlight Training Kit

Fleshlight Training Kit

A rabbit provides both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. Many luxury toys provide that experience and more!  The LELO INA 2 is the new and improved version of LELO’s bestselling dual-action vibrator, a rabbit-style design that feels as good as it looks! The INA 2 features even more powerful vibration settings. For the lady who loves bold colors, try the Lust L16 by JOPEN. This toy is also made of body-safe silicone and is rechargeable. What sets it apart is its curvy design and bright green color.

LELO Ina 2

LELO Ina 2

Lust L16 by Jopen

Lust L16 by Jopen


Sexy Ensembles

Ladies may have plenty of every day wear bras and panties, but what about something extra special? Consider getting your partner something sexy to wear in the bedroom. Get your partner something they will look great in. Our stores have a wide variety of styles and sizes. Our amazing staff can help you pick something for your lover or for yourself.


Bath and body lotions, oils, and candles are always a go-to gift.  Aromatherapy does wonders for a stressed partner. Seduce your lover with Romance Me Petals from DONA or treat your partner to a long soak with with Pamper Bubble Bath. Leave a trail of rose petals to beckon your partner to the bedroom! DONA’s bubble bath is infused with aphrodisiacs and pheromones that will leave your lover smelling absolutely irresistible!

DONA Romance Me Petals

DONA Romance Me Petals

DONA Pamper Me Bubble Bath

DONA Pamper Me Bubble Bath



Pair your gift with a complementary item. For the special someone receiving a luxury toy, pair it with a bottle of compatible lubricant. Pair silicone toys with a nice water-based lubricant. System JO’s Organic Lubricant is great for those who are looking for organic, gluten free, or vegan lube. For glass or steel gifts, pair with a silky silicone lubricant. System JO’s Premium Silicone Lubricant can also be used as a skin conditioner, moisturizer, and for therapeutic massage!

SYSTEM JO Organic Lubricant

System JO Organic Lubricant

Other Gift Tips (for your partner or friends)
  • Make this holiday memorable by including an element of surprise in not just the gift you give, but how you give it! Instead of exchanging gifts under the tree, why not give your partner their gift under the mistletoe?
  • Keep in mind your friends’ relationships when buying them a gift. Buy for the couple instead of as two individuals. These gifts are thoughtful because you acknowledge your appreciation for their happiness together.
  • For a friend, bath and body products are always a safe gift. Lotions and soaps are something they can use frequently.

No matter what you gift to your partner, make sure it’s something you think they will love!

2015 Holiday Gift Guide (Part 1)

Picking the perfect gift is important this season because we not only want to show our partners how much we care about them, but also how much we know about them, including their needs, desires and fantasies.

There is a wide variety of options for gifts for your partner. If you decide to select a sexy or sensual gift, we recommend using the following criteria to pick the perfect gift.

1. What does your partner love?
2. What would your partner want to try?
3. What is something you’d like to do for them or try with your partner?

The easiest way to choose the perfect gift is by the activities you know your partner loves! Is there a go-to activity that your partner always wants to do? Think of a gift that complements that activity. For example, if your partner loves oral sex, try a new flavored lubricant.

Holiday Gift Ideas

Gift of Going Down
Does your partner love giving or receiving oral sex? Flavored lubes and condoms make for a tasty treat! System JO’s Raspberry Sorbet Lubricant instantly comes to mind for its great taste and silky smooth consistency. This lube does not include artificial sweetener, which means this water-based lube never gets sticky! The best part about these is that they are one of the few flavored lubes that can also be used for penetrative sex.

H2O JO Raspberry Flavor

H2O JO Raspberry Flavor

Pair a session of cunnilingus with a clitoral stimulator for intense orgasms! The LELO Ora is 100% waterproof, and have 10 stimulation modes with adjustable intensity.

LELO Ora 2

LELO Ora 2


Get Kinky
Has your partner expressed an interest in being kinky? Fetish gear is a go-to! Get flirty with a pair of soft cuffs, or skirt the edge of danger with leather cuffs that will leave them wanting more! For beginners, this Intro to S and M Kit from Sex & Mischief includes a pair of black furry handcuffs, a satin blindfold and a 16” black whip. Also included is a story for play inspiration.

Intro to S&M Kit

Intro to S&M Kit

For a more advanced experience, try an Under the Bed Restraint System. This system by Sportsheets fits on any size mattress, easily turning your bed into an adult bondage playground. For experienced couples, look for bedroom gear that can withstand the intensity.

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System

Sportsheets Under the Bed Restraint System


Edge Leather Wrist Restraints are made from cowhide leather with nickel free hardware.

Edge Leather Cuffs

Edge Leather Cuffs


For the Both of You
Are you someone who goes gift shopping, and ends up with plenty of presents for yourself? Couple’s toys were made to be used by both you and your partner together. These toys can really make sex great for both of you. The recently re-designed We-Vibe 4 Plus allows partners to connect from any distance. This rechargeable silicone toy features a remote and app that let a lover control both clitoral and G-spot stimulation.

We-Vibe 4 Plus

We-Vibe 4 Plus




The LELO Tor II was made with both partner’s pleasure in mind. Worn by a male partner, this smooth silicone toy fits all sizes to deliver amazing sensations for both of you!

Stay tuned for the second part of your 2015 holiday gift guide!

New Fifty Shades of Grey Trailer TONIGHT!

Update 11/14: Our new trailer is finally here. Quick, watch it!

So how does it measure up? The seduction, the sighs, the romance, and the amount of bare skin in this trailer – WOW! We love everything about it! All of the romantic scenes have us on the edge of our seat, waiting for that moment they truly connect. While we didn’t get a new song per se, we still have that haunting feeling of excitement with this remix of deeper bass and even sexier beats. The only bad thing? We already want more!

New Look

Tonight’s the night! As promised by the official Fifty Shades of Grey twitter, we’ll be seeing a new trailer for the movie this evening! Tonight at 9|8c, a new Fifty Shades Trailer will air during the new episode of Scandal.


— Fifty Shades of Grey (@FiftyShades) November 13, 2014

So what are we expecting? More sensual songs, more tantalizing toys, and more sexy scenes!! We’re hoping for more than a half second look at what the Red Room has in store for Ana in the new trailer.

Media Timeline

November 12: Another day, another poster! This one features Christian Grey with his silky grey tie. Just another tease! We want more!

Universal Pictures

Universal Pictures

November 11: We’ve been biting our lip in anticipation of a new peek at film posters and we got it! Tuesday a new movie poster was revealed, featuring Ana’s signature seductive move. Christian can’t resist it, and neither can we!

Universal Pictures

Universal Pictures

November 6: What a tease! They gave us a 15 second clip of Mr. Grey suiting up for a long day of hard work at the office. That’s it?!

July 24: We are still Crazy in Love with the first Fifty Shades of Grey Movie Trailer we saw in July. The last full trailer gave us Beyonce’s “Crazy in Love,” a glimpse of innocent beginnings, and a yearning for more!

Tune in tonight to see that new clip! We can’t wait!

5 Reasons to Be Excited for Fifty Shades of Grey the Movie (Even if you’re not a fan of the novel!)

After the trailer’s initial release in July, Fifty Shades of Grey the movie quickly became the most viewed trailer of the summer! But if you’re not a loving fan of the books, you might be wondering what all the hype is about. Whether you are someone who hasn’t read the books, or are a die-hard Fifty Shades of Grey fan you should be excited for the movie and here’s why!


Go Grey!

The number of things you’ll take home from this movie is limitless! (And we’re not just talking about wet panties!) We’re hoping director Sam Taylor-Johnson goes above and beyond with Ana’s first time in Christian Grey’s Red Room of Pain. We know we’re going to see sexy positions and ideas that we haven’t tried yet!

This film opens the perfect opportunity to try new ways to please yourself! You can also ask your lover about a sexy new move they would like to try. That new move could be a position for lovemaking, or the introduction of a new bedroom toy. The possibilities are endless!


Book to Movie Comparisons

For die-hard Fifty Shades of Grey fans, comparisons between the book and the movie will be paramount. Quite often, movie renditions of our favorite novels fall short – but will Fifty Shades the movie be a rule or exception?

There have already been compromises in terms of cast, but this might mean we get the scenes we’ve been waiting for. While some of us are head over heels for Jamie Dornan – the rest of us may have seen someone more rough and rugged in the role of Christian Grey. Word around here is that Matt Bomer, or Charlie Hunnam would’ve made a hot Mr. Grey. Who would you pick?
Matt Bomer

Matt Bomer (Left)

Charlie Hunnam (Right)








Even for those who aren’t huge fans of the series, it will be interesting to see how the movie compares to your expectations and feelings about the book. You’ve probably heard plenty of things about the book – will the movie fulfill these rumors?


This One is Going to be HOT

Let’s be honest. Sexy movies – at least those made for women and couples – are slim pickings. Yeah, we have Magic Mike, 9 ½ Weeks, and Sliver; but what else?
Movies about romance? We could name a thousand! But movies about women experiencing sexual pleasure? Those films are few and far between!

Fear not! Fifty Shades of Grey the movie is going to rock the foundations of what we consider ‘sexy’ movies. We predict that upon this movie’s success, other companies will scramble to produce more breath-catching media for the general public. We see a lot more chains, cuffs, and crops in the near future.


Valentines Weekend Fun

The Fifty Shades of Grey movie will be released on a Friday, which could make a sexy Valentine’s Saturday for those of us going it alone, or with a partner. Grab a matinee movie showing Saturday afternoon, and then spend all evening in bed with a blindfold, some handcuffs, and a toy (or lover)!

The movie also provides great Valentine’s Day gift ideas, especially if your lover has previously expressed interest in kinky gear. Start slow with light sensation play by using a feather tickler or kissable body paint. You can also try a beginner S&M kit. More experienced kinksters can go for more hardcore gear like Edge’s heavy duty leather cuffs or a collar with adjustable nipple clamps.


This soundtrack Will be Music to Your Ears!


One of the most essential parts of the perfect movie is the music, and so far we’ve heard great things about the soundtrack. If we get more songs from Beyonce or other big time artists, we really are going to be “Crazy in Love” with the Fifty Shades of Grey movie! We suspect this record will drop shortly before the movie premieres in theaters. You can bet we’ll have that album playing non-stop through February 13th!


Snuggle Up, It’s Autumn!

When you think of autumn, what comes to mind? We instantly think of warmth and intimacy! As the temperatures drop, snuggle up with your partner for some fun. What better way to show your lover some love this fall than with a deep, relaxing massage or some slow and sensual oral sex!

Get Cozy!

Intimate OrganicsGetting close this fall isn’t difficult with the right tools! We love Intimate Organics for their commitment to body-safe products. All their products contain USDA Certified Organic Extracts and the highest quality ingredients. Free from parabens and vegan friendly, Intimate Organics sexual enhancement gels, sprays, and water-based glides are autumn favorites this year.

Create closeness between you and your partner with Intimate Organics Embrace Tightening Gel. This highly rated gel works to make vaginal tissue contract temporarily – increasing pleasure for both partners. Increase excitement through clitoral stimulation! Try manual stimulation using fingers, toys, or tongues. Or try Intimate Organics Clitoral Stimulating Gel. This body and latex safe stimulation gel enhances sensitivity by increasing blood flow. For those with extra smell and taste sensitivities, the Intimate Organics Hydra Lube is free from scents and flavors. This long-lasting lubricant is glycerin and propylene glycol free, making it safe for your body. Extremely pure, this has become the lubricant of choice during pap smears for pro-active doctors.

Caress Your Lover

One of the easiest ways to initiate intimacy is to touch your lover. Touch, especially massage can increase circulation, relax strained muscles, and relieve stress through the release of endorphins. Watch your partner’s face soften as you offer them a back rub with warmed massage oil! If it has been a long, chilly autumn day this can really heat things up in the bedroom later!

dragoncream-small2-500x500This 100% natural oil never leaves you feeling greasy; instead it refreshes skin with Vitamin E to feel soft and luscious. Shunga Erotic Massage Oil is free from mineral and animal oil; it won’t clog pores.

To really fan the fire this fall, add heating and cooling sensations in the bedroom. Shunga’s Dragon Cream is a performance product for him, which creates pleasure and orgasms for her. This water-based lubricant is made from all natural extracts and herbs to enhance performance. Th
is product works for those with sensitivities too, as it is gluten, sugar, paraben, and fragrance free! Since Dragon Cream is also latex and sex toy friendly, feel free to add some toys to your play!

For the ultimate evening in, the Shunga Carnal Pleasures Collection provides a bit of everything you need. It contains Shunga Exotic Fruit Erotic Massage Oil, Grape Intimate Kisses Aphrodisiac Oil, “Soft Moves” Cherry Massage Cream, Cherry Sensations Balm, and Raspberry Sweet Snow Body Powder with a feather tickler. This kit stimulates all your senses, from the taste of cherry lips to the touch of lover’s hands caressing. Shunga has us heated over their intense pleasure products!

Caring for You

KEY by Jopen RabbitOne of the most important people you can care for this season is yourself! With the holidays upon us, it’s easy to see signs of stress creeping into our lives. The best way to combat stress is to take time for yourself. This includes caring for your sexual self. Plus, there are so many physical benefits to orgasms!

We love Jopen’s Key collection for their luxurious looks and affordability! While KEY sex toys have a similar design to other toy staples, their high quality finishes make these sex toys stand out! KEY by Jopen toys are crafted from sleek body-safe silicone, and have glass-like controllers. Both materials make for a safe toy, whether you go for the finger massager or rabbit design.

The KEY Ela appeals to couples as it’s designed for pleasure for two. This vibrating ring out performs standard rings as it offers 5 different vibration patterns. Many of their toys are USB rechargeable, which makes these toys great travel buddies! Most memorable is their G-spot toy – the KEY Skye. This waterproof, silicone wand has a flexible shaft, making it great for both the beginner and g-spot expert. Every woman needs a rabbit-style vibrator in her toy-chest. KEY’s Ceres Rabbit features this design, but with a few extras. The dual motor massager has seven patterns, plus speed control. And this silicone toy is waterproof, making it a great bath time addition.

Whether it’s a relaxing massage or a sensual session of lovemaking – get in touch with your soft side this fall.

Lets Get to Know We-Vibe!

Want a new twist on things when it comes to couples play? Well these classic, yet unique toys bring fun and excitement back into the bedroom.

We-Vibe 4

Shared pleasure is more exciting than ever before with the We-Vibe 4. This number one selling couples vibrator helps bring more stimulating and satisfying experience anytime, any place. She wears it during sex for simultaneous clitoral and G-spot stimulation and together you will both feel the vibration patterns. We-Vibe 4 is body safe and comfortable for both partners and 100% water-proof so you can take the excitement into the shower, bath or jacuzzi.

There are even more reasons why you need to add this amazing toy to your collection.

  • - Remote control
  • - Rechargeable battery with a 2-in-1 carrying case
  • - 6 Powerful, quiet vibrations, including new Echo vibe
  • - 1 year warranty through the manufacturer

tangoIt takes two to Tango! The Tango by We-Vibe is one of the most powerful mini-vibes on the market. Choose from its 8 different vibration modes for intense clitoral or all over body stimulation. It’s rechargeable battery can give you two hours of straight play on a single charge, and like the We-Vibe 3 is 100% water-proof! Small and compact you can take this powerful, pocket-sized toy any where you go!

Gently rock your world with the Touch by We-Vibe. Touch’s power delivers 8 different and deeply satisfying, rumbling vibrations. With it being 100% waterproof you and your partner can enjoy your shower time even more!touch

Here’s a quick feature summary of this sleek, sensual toy

  • - Sculpted, soft and sensuous
  • - 90-minute recharge
  • - Powerful, quiet vibrations
  • - Body-safe – free from phthalates, latex and BPA
  • - Eco-friendly – carbon-neutral, rechargeable battery and recyclable packaging
  • - Up to 2 hours of play on a single charge
  • - 1-year warranty through manufacturer

Easy soap-and-water cleanup

FAQ & Our Advice to You

Do you have a questions about enhancing your sex life? So did these did these people. Check out what our experts had to say.

What is the difference between water-based and silicone-based lubricant?

Water- based lubricants are water-soluble and are the most widely used personal lubricants. These lubricants are compatible with a variety of sex toys and condoms. They do dissolve in water, so they are not ideal for sex acts in water.

Silicone-based lubricants are usually formulated with fewer than four ingredients and do not contain any water. Silicone-based lubricants are not absorbed by skin or mucus membranes, therefore will last longer than water-based lubricants. We recommend using this type of lubricant for water play and backdoor action.

We don’t recommend using a silicone-based lubricant with your silicone toys because the formula may dissolve the surface of the toy, making it a potential breeding ground for bacteria. While some premium toys and lubricants are compatible, we recommend playing it safe and sticking with water-based lubricant for use with toys.


How is it that some women don’t know if they’ve had an orgasm or not? What are some things that may help them to have one?Powerful-1

If a woman doesn’t know if she’s had an orgasm, then odds are she hasn’t. For starters, she needs to get out of her brain in case she’s all up in it wondering if she’s had an orgasm. That could be a big buzz kill for orgasm.

A vibrator can help with reaching orgasm and finding a reliable and powerful enough vibrator is a good start. We recommend starting with a small, vibrator that’s not too intimidating and working on finding your favorite erogenous zones.

Sometimes women get it in their head that they need to have a vaginal orgasm and don’t give proper attention to their clitoris. Or that it shouldn’t take very long to have an orgasm, when it takes women a lot longer than men to climax. It’s okay to take your time and figure out your body so you can free your mind and tap into clitoral stimulation.

If you’ve never had anal sex before and want to try it, how can I get prepared for it so it won’t hurt so much?

Pink2Anal sex should never hurt, and if it does then you definitely want to stop what you’re doing. That being said, prepping for your first time is a great way to have the best experience possible. We suggest using a silicone-based lube and perhaps an anal plug to get you used to the sensation. You can use a lube shooter to get the lube inside, if you need assistance applying.  Be sure to just relax and enjoy the sensations!

When looking for a lube, you want to look for one that lasts long enough. a silicone lube  would be best or water-based lube designed for this type of play .You should stay away from any kind of numbing kind of lubricants.

As for toys to get you in the mood for anal sex, one of our favorite plugs is the ripple, because it starts small and gets larger…or the pro-touch (it vibrates). They’re all silicone so they’re non porous and bacteria doesn’t get in. Also practice working on how it feels when something is going up your butt. Practice breathing and relaxing to see where that gets you.

Read more on anal play here.

Need answers to your own question? Ask us here!

BlueMotion by OhMiBod



Lovers is PROUD to introduce BluMotion the newest innovation from OhMiBod. BluMotion is the first Bluetooth enabled, wearable massager! Whether it is used with a partner or solo, BlueMotion has the ability to entice and stimulate no matter where you are, as long as you have an iPhone or Android device.blueMotion_beauty_lo

Some of the AMAZING functions include:

  • Over the internet control
  • Pres-set patterns
  • Touch control
  • Tap & Record vibration patterns
  • Motion Control
  • Audio Recording

In each box you will receive one whisper quiet, Bluetooth app controlled wearable massager, one blue lace thong, privacy pouch to store your product when not in use, and one USB charging cable. BluMotion is a must have addition to any toy collection! blueMotion_panties-w-product_lo

*Phones not included

Sportsheets: Keeping Couples Connected

Have you heard of Sportsheets? If you’ve already heard about them, then you know why we can’t stop talking about them. If you haven’t heard of them, we’re going to show you what you’ve been missing!

Sportsheets is the go-to brand for soft bondage and sexual positioning tools for beginners and bondage aficionados alike!  The award-winning manufacturer prides itself on innovation and quality. For example, the newly announced plus –size line, Edge (in select stores soon). Here, we’re going to share our favorite products and what people are saying about them!Heart harness

About the Heart Harness Red Silicone Dong

“I bought this a month ago. The wife loves putting it on and doing me. I have never seen her orgasm so much and get so wet. The size is perfect. Highly recommend this product to anyone who wants to spice up there night fun.” -Danny

“Just purchased this. Size is perfect and made sex lots of fun. Fun item to buy.” –Anonymous

About the Under the Bed Restraint System

“This one of my favorite things! #1. No one knows it’s there because it hides under your mattress! 2. It fits any bed. 3. The straps are soft and keep a tight hold, without cutting into your skin and they are easy to put on and take off…for the one in charge :D”- Anonymous

under the bed“I have a California King and this system accommodates to it great! Pull them to the sides of the mattress to keep your partner from moving at all or pull it to the bottom/top of the bed to allow some movement, but you can get really creative and have alot of fun with it. Go crazy!” – Anonymous

“My wife and I enjoy this a ton. My wife has some knee trouble and we can adjust it so that she can move her leg and still have the rest of her unmoving. Lots of fun.”- Scott

“My gal and I really like this system.. It adjusts really easy and like the fact that the cuffs are detachable for other areas of fun.. Thank you…”- Wayne

Sportsheets AwardsS&M

  •  Adultex 2014 Best Bondage, Restraints, and Positioning Range – Sex & Mischief
  •  Xbiz 2014 Fetish Pleasure Product of the Year – Expandable Spreader Bar – Sportsheets
  •  Xbiz 2014 Best Pleasure Product manufacturer- Sportsheets
  •  AVN 2014 Best Fetish Manufacturer- Sportsheets

Thirsty Thursday: Naughty Cocktails Part 2

Thirsty Thursday is here once again and I am sure we are all need of a naughty cocktail, just in time to kick off the holiday weekend! Be warned, have too many and these cocktails will have you seeing stars!

For those of you who want to want something a light and refreshing we recommend a Slow Comfortable Screw.slow comfortable screw

What you will need:
• 1 shot sloe gin
• 1 shot Southern Comfort
• 1 shot of Premium Vodka
• Orange juice

Method: Pour vodka, sloe gin and Southern Comfort into a Collins glass filled with ice. Fill with orange juice, stir well and enjoy.
royal fuck

However, no 4th of July party would be complete without an Absolut Royal Fuck while relaxing by the pool.

What you will need:
• 1 oz Crown Royal® Canadian whisky
• 1/2 oz Absolut® Kurant vodka
• 1/2 oz peach schnapps
• 1 splash cranberry juice
• 1 splash pineapple juice

Method: Chill in tumbler, shake, and serve up in a rocks glass.

Happy 4th of July! Please drink responsibly.